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    Default TTC and very confused! Pls help.

    I would ask for a referral to a fertility specialist for further testing. It may well turn out to be 'unexplained infertility' or you may fall pregnant before needing any intervention, but it's worth getting checked out. There are so many things that could be preventing you from falling pregnant and an FS will know what to look for better than a GP or even an OB/GYN.

    In the meantime I would look at doing a BBT chart to get a bit more familiar with your cycles. Google "Fertility Friend Charting" if you haven't charted before and want to know how it works.

    Good luck

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    Just to make life a little worse. Sometimes Cervical Mucus isnt the be all end all. When the OPK Said I was about to O, I didnt get ANY EWCM that week ... at all.

    I personally think the Dr is a little crazy. Not all women O from day 12. Id be getting started within 1-2 days of the end of your period which can be Day 7-9! If your an early O'er ... 14 months on DTD from C12 would mean you could have been missing O time for 12 months or more

    Maybe start by going to a different Dr, After 12 months of trying you can then go to a Fertility Specialist for futher testing and keep trying (DTD from the end of your period) whilst your waiting for the FS Appointment.

    As nasty as it sounds, weight actually can make a difference so your Dr may not be completely wrong. Possibly focus on a healthy lifestyle, having fun and relaxing a tad (easier said than done, I know! ) and hopefully this is your month

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    Thank-you all for giving me support. I now have some questions for those who have had children. Last night when i was in bed i had some cramping only on the left hand side and it wasn't that painful yesterday was 12 dpo. I have been checking my cervix this month as-well per my dr and today its very high and soft. Today i also noticed like a tan colour with the smallest hint of pink discharge..is this implantation or am i seriously insane. My normal period should start on the 6th. please help me I'm so very confused.

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    Implantation happens 6-12 DPO and many women say they get twinges in the ovaries rather than the uterus then find themselves pg. Not sure why as obviously it doesn't implant in the tube. The brown spotting could indicate implantation as well.

    I found when I've been pg my cx is high, closed and soft. Having said that, I just finished my period and from CD1 my cx was, and still is super high. having had a previous ectopic where I had a period my first month, I did a test today. I almost expected it to be pos. But it was stark white neg. So it isn't *always* a sign of pg.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MrsR2012 View Post

    I personally think the Dr is a little crazy. Not all women O from day 12. Id be getting started within 1-2 days of the end of your period which can be Day 7-9! If your an early O'er ... 14 months on DTD from C12 would mean you could have been missing O time for 12 months or more

    This. It was exactly what happened to me. 1 month after correcting our little error- BANG.

    Honestly- you are so young! You will be fine

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    Default TTC and very confused! Pls help.

    Quote Originally Posted by Tics21 View Post
    Thank-you all for giving me support. I now have some questions for those who have had children. Last night when i was in bed i had some cramping only on the left hand side and it wasn't that painful yesterday was 12 dpo. I have been checking my cervix this month as-well per my dr and today its very high and soft. Today i also noticed like a tan colour with the smallest hint of pink discharge..is this implantation or am i seriously insane. My normal period should start on the 6th. please help me I'm so very confused.
    Both times I've gotten pg I've had implantation - mucus/discharge with a pink tinge.

    It could be implantation....

    With my first I wasn't charting, but my second I was about 9dpo when I noticed it. I tested at 10dpo and got a faint positive

    Maybe test after 14dpo. Hope this is your month

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    Default TTC and very confused! Pls help.

    Tics21 - how did you go this month?

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    Default TTC and very confused! Pls help.

    How did you go? I'm in a similar boat

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    Default TTC and very confused! Pls help.

    I would love to know how you went as well - I'm in a similar situation...


 

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