He use to sleep 7-6/6:30 and day sleep used to be 1/1:30-2:30/3
Lately he's falling asleep round 8pm, waking round 2:30/3:30am and again at 4:30/5:30am
Day sleeps have been anywhere between 11:30-1:30 and usually only for 1.5 hours
My DH is a very hands on dad. He does a LOT. He has always got up in the night, he baths DS every night, he changed DS's nappy, feeds him, plays with him, is affectionate to him, dresses him - you name it, DH does it. Never whingey about it either.
It's just that he has no patience to sit with DS while he falls asleep and he has preconceived ideas of how things 'should' be (according to others I.e - our stupid doctor, media, family, friends etc) he's stuck in his ways and he's almost TOO hands on when it comes to the sleeping thing coz he interferes with what comes naturally to me. He tries to help but it's not helping. But after many discussions over the past few days I think he's realized that and has backed off a bit.