Omg I'm back and now getting really stresses.
Ok so the update is, we got DS back to using the toilet majority of the time. He still has accidents and that's ok we just try again.
Our problem is at his day sleep and also bedtime at night our DS turns into a poo Picasso! We have tried scolding him for it, we have tried getting him to go to the toilet before sleep times, ignoring it, even tried cool showers to clean him up but nothing's working. I'm starting to get really worried and stressed as today alone I have had to clean 2 walls because of his poo painting.
I'm hoping and praying that someone else has had this problem and can give me some kind of advice on what to do :-( seriously at the end of my tether with him :-(