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    Unhappy I think I am having a miscarriage

    I think I am having a miscarriage I feel so angry and confused right now I have a GP appointment but I don't even feel like going, I know what the scan will say, no one can bleed this much and sustain a pregnancy, my symptoms have disappeared just like last time, I haven't felt pregnant since my 6w scan 2 weeks ago.

    I thought we were safe, we saw a HB at the 6w scan, a healthy growing baby and it was a lie I never want to go through this again

    I feel like the horrible part is we weren't even TTC, I had a termination back in June because I didn't want another small age gap we accepted that 6 months can make a lot of difference and we made the difficult decision to keep this baby despite no family support, hubby working away and me already struggling at times. And now it's been taken away from us.

    I feel like some people will think/say bad things because it's been so soon, I know I shouldn't care but I do and I agree with them, I wish I was sterile too.

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    Oh no Im so sorry you are going through this I truly hope your little bean is a tough little sticky. I know you're really sad but please don't for one second believe you and your family deserve this or that you should be sterile This is your family and you have every right to make your own decisions no matter what others think. And you are allowed to be terribly upset at whats happening now, you dont deserve to be going through this Im really sorry and Im holding onto hope that you get some good news from your appointment

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    Default Re: I think I am having a miscarriage

    *hugs*

    Please don't think/feel negative about yourself. Anyone who says anything bad to/about you should have a good hard look at themselves.

    I'm so sorry that this is happening. Can you speak to your partner?

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    Headoverfeet please don't blame yourself or any decisions you have made!

    All we can do is make choices that are right for our family at the time. It is not anyone else's business.

    You have every right to feel angry, hurt and sad whether you were TTC or not.

    You are in my thoughts and prayers xox

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    Default Re: I think I am having a miscarriage

    I agree dancingchipmunk...it says more about the people saying bad things than you. This is your life and your family, I know Its so hard not to care but the people who say such awful things aren't worthy of your time.

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    Default I think I am having a miscarriage

    Please don't be so hard on yourself!

    No one should have to feel what this is like, you don't deserve this at all! I wish I knew what to say to make everything okay.

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    Big hugs, HOF. Be gentle to yourself. I'm sure this baby was very loved and wanted.

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    Default I think I am having a miscarriage

    I'm so sorry for what you're going through. It must be quite frightening.

    I think attending your appointment is probably important, to make sure there nothing else going on, and your health isn't compromised at all...

    Thinking of you x

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    I'm very sorry the bleeding can be scary. If you continue to bleed really heavy for more than 12 hours please go to the hospital. They can't save the pg but then should be able to slow the bleeding

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    I'm so sorry hun Please go to your appointment xoxo


 

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