Can I ask you (feel free not to answer), do you define as a 'type' of gender queer? (Eg do you define as you male and female or as neither?). I have always been very interested in these subjects, especially as I grew up going to midsumma with my mum and her partner. I've never seen so many different 'types' in one place as you find there
My friend and I 'played around' with each other, exploring bodies when we were young (around 10ish)... I didn't think it was 'wrong' but knew it was a secret...
I was always attracted to girls but I wanted to be a mum so bad that I thought it would be easier to be with a guy.
I dated one girl whilst I was a teen but she broke my heart. I also kissed a few of my friends (who knew i was interested in girls so thought they could 'experiment' with me)
I officially 'came out' just after my 20th birthday because I lost my twin boys and realised being with a guy couldn't give me a baby any faster than being with a girl.
I met my DP at the end of that year and we have been together now for over 5 years (and expecting a babe in July!!!!). I feel so much more comfortable in this relationship and sex doesn't make me cry anymore!
My family were shocked when they found out but I explained that I just knew all my life and they quickly changed to be supportive and treated us like any other couple. <3
I was 10 when I realised I was interested in girls, and that this was something I best be careful about, as I lived in a conservatiive country town. I only had female r/ships until I became interested in guys as well at age 20.
I have since had r/ships with girls who identify as"straight", guys who consider themselves queer, transexuals, etc. I can't help but come to the conclusion that most of us, to some degree, have a pretty fluid sexual identity.
I never really thought about it. I have always been very open, so I would more so say that Im pansexual but Im sure that can be debated.
I like people for who they are not whats between their legs. So I wouldnt be able to pick an age really...
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