DP was like that throughout my whole pregnancy. It made me cry myself to sleep so often, especially when I got appendicitis when I was 32 weeks and there was a real risk to bub he just did not seem concerned about her but intensely about me. That all changed after she was born, it turned out he was so terrified he would not be able to cope he would not feel what he should Eric. He is a wonderful father and I have even heard him say dd is the best thing that's ever happened to him- that makes my heart melt.
Don't give up hope people deal with things in different ways. If you need to talk I am here just on me xxx