It's not a good feeling when you aren't around them as fun as it is when you are. I could easily keep doing this cos it feels nice when we are together ... But I can feeling it breaking my heart a little more each day because we technically aren't and may never be. I dunno hey. It's a very confusing situation and I can barely comprehend it myself.
I'm sorry you are going through this.
I have a similar situation on my hands, my partner is about to go through property settlement/divorce and so we have taken a back step for now due to several reasons.
It's really upsetting me as we are so happy together but external factors are causing stress that we don't need in a relatively new relationship. We are hopeful that we can be stronger than ever after all this has been finished but a lot can happen between now and then.
It's so hard, I really feel for you.
That's very brave of you and I think it's the right thing to do. If you're questioning the logistics of a relationship with this man already then clearly there's difficulty waiting ahead unless he sorts out his issues first.
There's no reason why you can't keep the lines of communication open so that should he be in a better place in the future you''ll be there . But personally I feel that putting that much effort into a relationship that's so short and not yet fully established would probably end up leading to an unhappy situation anyway.
Good luck I hope he does get himself sorted out soon and you're able to rekindle what you had .
I'm sorry, I'm not single. But you're a Hubber I greatly respect and just wanted to send you some of these good luck Hun.
I've noticed that today I'm being very impatient with my boys and just wanting them to leave me alone. Which isn't like me at all. Like I'm churned up in the tummy. This makes me think that relationships are not for me cos the last thing I want to do is push my babies away because I'm feeling down and emotional. I just want this strange feeling period to pass so I can get back to my happy place!!!
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