Adding I might not believe them at first but it would certainly get me looking IYKIM
It's not to hurt him. But he has admitted he won't tell his partner (they aren't married) I and my friend thinks she should know. She would be staying with him not knowing the truth about him, he is going behind her back and lying to her, doesn't she have a right to know?
But neither of us are in a long term relationship, which is why I asked here.
From what I can gather you would want to know, but it can't come from the other woman. So if my friend shouldn't tell her then she won't know.
It's complex and I to and fro a bit with this one OP. Perhaps she could give him the opportunity to tell his wife, 'you need to tell her or I will' .
It could be horrible for your friend too to not be believed or the reaction from the wife could end in your friend being humiliated. Just make sure your friend really thinks things through because there will be no winners.
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