I turned a blind eye because I was too stupid to see what was in front of me. I spent 15 yrs with a man who wasn't even worthy of a single yr of my life.
If I ever confronted him about my suspicions he just talked his way out of it. If someone anyone had been ballsy enough to tell me the truth I would have at least had all the facts.
I have filled someone in before that their husband was having an affair. Someone I did not previously know. But I knew the husband from a long time ago. My understanding is they tried to work things out for about a yr & couldn't then split.
I did so anonymously & don't regret doing it. I only remembered this today shocked I'd forgotten about it