I have a 11 1/2 week old girl who's fully breast feed and I'm getting confused with everyone's advice!!
All these books don't have answers if your baby doesn't do what the books says!!
I've started my own routine but everyday is different only thing that stays the same is starting and finishing the day around the same time. here it goes
6:30-7am wake and feed
8:30-9 (depends on tired signs) bed
Now here's my problem, some days she'll sleep for 2hrs others only 40mins. Do I feed her again as soon as she wakes up or wait so each feed is the same distance apart so she's not snacking then waking up from her next sleep hungry cos she didnt get a full feed the last time? If she wakes after 40mins I try to get her to sleep more but it never happens. She's not starving but if I offer her boob she'll take it. If I wait till 4hrs from her last feed she'll be ready for bed again.
So for example if your following polly moores 90minute sleep program, if your baby wakes after one sleep cycle do you feed her straight away and start 90minutes again? But then if your following tizzie hall's routine she tells u to wait till their next feeding time n keep them up till their next scheduled sleep, by this time she is overtired n won't settle!!
I really don't know what to do. Help!!