Hi everyone, I'd like to ask another question/make a comment. Not sure weather I should start a new post, or just post here. I'll just do it here for now.
I have got my SIL to talk to one of her older sisters, who is taking her to a counciling appt today (I'm working and couldn't get the day off).
But I'm genuinely concerned for her mental health, either way what she chooses (I believe) will have major impact on her mental health.
I probation should of mentioned this earlier (but completely slipped my mind, until last night when I was talking to the other SIL)
She is not in a very good state of mind. Has a lot of "issues". And is on medication for panic attacks and some other medication that not 100% sure of what it's for.
We/she have a lot of personal stuff going on, which has effected her for the worse, and I think this on top if everything is a lot for her.
I'm worried her choice either way, will have a very negative impact.
my self and her older sister don't think she could handle a termination, yet we dont think she will be able to handle a baby (not that she won't be able to look after it) I'm meaning more the emotional/mental roller coaster that comes with pregnancy and a baby( iykwim)
Anyways, not really sure of my point? (And I hope I don't sound mean? Or anything! I'm just really worried for her either way) and I don't really have anyone else to talk to about it