I am so desperate to have number 3 i always expected i would have number 3 by the time my ds2 was 2.5 he is now 2.5 so i accepted that i can wait until he is 3.5.
but my DH wants us to pay off some debts and get ourselves finically set up, while I know this is the smart thing to do i cant help but feel that a gap of over 4 years is HUGE
I dont want kid no3 to be complaining that his brothers are so much older then him and feel left out.
so what do you think is 4.5 years too much of a gap?
would you prefer to have a 3.5 yr gap?
do you think it will affect a youngest child having to older siblings so close in age and make him/her feel left out?
***** edit, my DS1 & DS2 are 14 months apart