Certainly don't feel crash hot about myself. Sometimes I think some people need to grow a brain cell or two. two days after I had ds (my 3rd child), I had people questioning me with why is your stomach so big? It shouldn't be big! or the dreaded : are you having another baby so soon? I JUST HAD A BABY FFS!!!!
And yes, these come from people who have had kids, so you think they would KNOW you have a baby belly for a while after a baby.
The worst part is, i'm 176cm tall and am 78kgs, I don't think I'm really fat by any means, all I put on in this pregnancy was 12 kg's. the norm. And after having 2 ceaserians then a natural birth I actually think my stomach is heaps smaller this time around.. i really don't know what on earth some people are on about.
I either get these stupid comments or on the other end of the scale of 'wow, can't believe you just had a baby, you don't look like you have..''...
Thought i'd just get my silly vent out. As I said, I don't really think i'm fat, I wear size 12-14 generally, I have come a long way with my weight to be at a healthy weight after weighing 48kg's for years and being severely sickly underweight. I went up to 65, then had the first 2 kids, then was sitting at 71 - 72kg's for about 4 years and now i'm 78 post baby. I really wonder what some people are on about because the demon in my head is beginning to think that MAYBE i am fat after all.
wish some people would just keep their stupid mouths shut. I would certainly never say such stupid things to anybody.