I am so desperate for advice from anyone who has been in the same situation and has managed to make it work more successfully. My 4 and 1/2 month old was an ok sleeper up until a month ago but now resists going to bed at all. Days or nights its all the same, she screams until I have to pick her up and falls asleep on my shoulder OR half the time she continues to carry on and scream even though she is being cuddled. Naps are only ever 45 mins and then night times she is waking every 2 hours. Any advice please???