Hi Im just looking for some help from mums that have made co-parenting work while under the same roof as the EX. ExDh walked out on me and our 3kids and went to stay with his family while I was getting ready to move closer to mine so I could get help with the kids while I finish uni and work. We have had some luck with our ASD son and he will be getting the help he needs now so we could make it work out this way now we have found some support. Ex is happy and thinks it would be best if we all could stay in the “family home” while I do my last year of uni and that way our son is not being moved around while he is transitioning back into full days at school. The house has the room for us to have our own parts so I guess I could make it work if I knewit was only going to be for a small amount of time (due to ex leaving me after I confronted him when I found out he was cheating I still find it hard to be around him) and the kids want to stay.
Im just not sure how to work some things out like bills, and stuff I have car payments, day care,uin books, before and after school care our sons appointments are not cheap and are all monthly so I have a lot to pay on top of house payments now that we are apart child support is going to cover a good chunk of what I have to pay but if we are living together will I still get child support as he has never been willing to help out with money and do not think he would start now.
So if you have been through this how did you work things outwhere there things that made it easy for you to get along or was it hard for you.