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    So Good Friday was super hard for both dh and I. I think it kinda sunk in that next year we won't have buba he won't see his first Easter then remembering that every holiday, he won't be there.

    Every Easter, every birthday and every Christmas even after we have more babies there will be one little soul missing. We want him so badly we wish he had any other diagnosis that would give us time. We don't care if he was never smart, never good looking or never normal. Just to be able to share holidays and time with him would mean so much to us!

    Watching my nieces and nephews play and grow over the weekend seeing them enjoy the egg hunt and family time just breaks my heart.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Allymumtobe View Post
    So Good Friday was super hard for both dh and I. I think it kinda sunk in that next year we won't have buba he won't see his first Easter then remembering that every holiday, he won't be there.

    Every Easter, every birthday and every Christmas even after we have more babies there will be one little soul missing. We want him so badly we wish he had any other diagnosis that would give us time. We don't care if he was never smart, never good looking or never normal. Just to be able to share holidays and time with him would mean so much to us!

    Watching my nieces and nephews play and grow over the weekend seeing them enjoy the egg hunt and family time just breaks my heart.

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    Oh Ally, that must have been very difficult. My own sister was here for easter and because of a serious spinal problem she may never have children.
    We had a big chat about it and I explained to her that I understood her reluctance to get too close to my sons. It's heartbreaking to see her so sad and your situation strikes me as even more upsetting. You're a very inspiring lady *hugs*.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Eko View Post
    Oh Ally, that must have been very difficult. My own sister was here for easter and because of a serious spinal problem she may never have children.
    We had a big chat about it and I explained to her that I understood her reluctance to get too close to my sons. It's heartbreaking to see her so sad and your situation strikes me as even more upsetting. You're a very inspiring lady *hugs*.
    Thank you.

    Your poor sister though!! Could she have a surrogate and use her eggs? It must be very upsetting to not to be able to carry your own babies.

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    Ally sending hugs to you. It is a very difficult thing that you are going through. I know that angus is very lucky to have a mum and dad like you who is fighting for him every step of the way and love him just the way he is. X

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    Sending you love and hugs Ally to you and your DH. X

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    I just couldnt read and not post. Ally your strength in dealing with all of this is truly inspirational! I will continue to check in to see how you and Angus are doing *hugs*

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    Ally- my heart aches for you. I know our situations are different but I always feel like you're reading my mind. DH and I went for a walk yesterday and were talking about our Easter traditions growing up and what we would do for our children and my heart was hurting inside knowing that we'll never get to do those traditions with Clementine.

    I was/am going to write a separate post about this but I often feel like my life and memories are divided into two distinct sections. Before we lost Clem and after. I can classify everything by that, I imagine you can do the same with Angus' diagnosis.

    Have you read that blog a previous poster gave to you? I read through some of it and found it very inspirational for myself (just how strong this mother and baby are) and hopeful for you. I know you must be so frightened to allow that hope though.

    I'm sorry I haven't posted on here lately but I do continue to follow you're updates, I've just been emotionally drained lately.

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    I've just read the whole topic and my heart just breaks for you ally. You are such a strong and inspirational lady and I wish you, hubby and Angus all the very best xxxx

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    Wow. You're very inspirational Ally.
    Thank you for sharing your journey with us.

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