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    Quote Originally Posted by BigRedV View Post
    Well I wouldn't be just brushing it off in the name of love because mistakes have been made, I would be doing everything in my power to find out what happened immediately!
    Me personally I agree, let's say for example he's accused of murder or sex crime or something like that, what if he's accused of some big sensational crime from awhile ago I would be concerned of say media harassment ( maybe I'm just paranoid ) but its not completely left field really, aca does it all the time, suprises unsuspecting people!

    What if he's an informant or something & other criminals may come looking to you?

    In regard to him having been at family court just 3 months ago, do you have actual proof of this? Or are you going off secondhand information? If its an older crime maybe DNA evidence against him may have recently became available.

    We can all speculate all we want but the truth is majority of replies have all said the same thing

    THEY WOULD DO ANYTHING TO FIND OUT RIGHT NOW what the charges are. I personally would be EXTREMELY worried that in the event the charges are that serious next on my doorstep would be docs thinking my child had been exposed to god knows what. And what I'm just chilling writing for advice on a forum saying ill wait til Monday.

    I am being blunt but what I've written is exactly what I would say to my BFF who's kids I love like my own

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    lol docs have absolutly no reason to take my child. I take slight offence to that. I am the best mother, doing absolutly EVERYTHING in my power for my child in every respect.

    It was his phone. HIS personal mobile phone as it had his number on it. His sister told me his mum packed it in a bag with some clothes for court (with his charger) and handed it over to officers at the watch house this morning. They werent allowed to talk to DP though.

    And yes i know for certain it was court for custody, as i've seen the paper work, stamped and dated of that date he was there.

    Like i said, speculation wont get me anywyere, it could be anything, and in the case of violence, and if i thought either myself or my daughter were in danger i would find the assistance we need to remain safe.

    No he didnt mention anything in his message, just that he is sorry and will try and call on monday.

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    Well I know for a fact they can't have mobile phones in jail or wherever he owuld be locked up. Op somethings up, I think maybe he's not even in jail, perhaps he's out on bail in the the other state?
    Why don't you try and call his phone back?

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    I don't understand how he can have a mobile and charger? This doesn't sound right.

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    I'm not trying to be offensive I'm trying to be realistic. If your DP is a serial killer from another state or a sex offender with numerous victims docs will be looking for more than just your word that your child is safe.

    Your situation is unusual there's unlikely to be many others who have personally been in your situation so I think majority of replies have been the same advice we would have given to our friends/family.

    Good luck with everything

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    Someones Mummy i just called it and got the 'Hi the person you have called is unavaliable. Maybe your right, maybe hes on bail and just hasnt told anyone... maybe hes ashamed, or trying to protect us all. i dont know Or maybe he was given access to his phone to get contact details (i know his solicitiors number is in his phone from the custody stuff) ... more speculation. I have to stop that.

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    My comments are what I would tell my family and friends in the same situation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by InNeedOfWisdom View Post
    LoveMyFam, thats something thats really confusing me. DP was in court for child custody issues less than 3 months ago (for final orders, finally!) and so obviously they had all of his details, everything to where he works, where he lives, the childs grandparents names etc, so why did nothing happen then???
    Being in a different state probably had something to do with it. Also custody stuff happens in the family court, not criminal court. I doubt they would have done a federal police check for family law.

    I think you need to brace yourself for the worst OP. Bc to get extradition the police need pretty solid evidence. It's very costly, it's a mountain of paper work and leg work for police, courts etc. I'm not saying 100% he's guilty but I suspect what ever it is, they have compelling evidence.
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    That's odd about his phone. You're not allowed anything like that. Even your belt and shoe laces are confiscated.

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    There is no way at all he would be able to have his mobile phone. If he needed a number his mum could have got it and passed it on, they would not have given him access to a mobile phone.
    He and his family is lying to you.


 

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