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    Don't give her guff for not going, she obviously feels its best.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Naboo View Post
    If you have your kids anywhere near this man you need to find out what he's been charged with. No burying your head in the sand thinking whatever happens happens. You have an obligation to your kids to keep them safe. What if he was charged with a child related crime.

    i hope the reason you haven't posted for a while is because you decided to go to court.
    110% agree with this first & foremost & secondly if you really see a future or had seen a future with this man you should be showing him support if he really hasn't done anything too badly wrong.

    If it was me & as pp believe due to extradition it must be very serious I would wonder if I had missed signs if that makes sense.

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    Quote Originally Posted by InNeedOfWisdom View Post

    2, i really do not like the insinuation that I would do anything but keep my child safe. For a start, my child has not been home throughout all of this, and will be returning this weekend (). She has missed all of the action so to speak.


    Ive decided that while i can still be there for DP, i really need to put my welfare 1st and look after myself for when my DD comes home (Shes been with her BioF for some xmas holidays).

    Ive seen a lot of speculation on what his charges could be. Yes, it could be murder, it could be child abuse,
    Sooooo… your daughter hasn't been there for the four months you've been with this guy? Cos you said that she has 'missed all the action' and can't have been affected yet you then go on to say that you realize it could be child abuse or something similar - so which is it?

    I'm incredibly confused over this whole thread - either you've negated to provide all the information or you're swallowing half truths as fed to you by this guys family.

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    OP if you wanted to you could call the courts and apply for a trancript of the proceedings, then you could read in your own time word for word what happened in court. Sometimes there is a small charge per page but depending on your state should be freely available as public record. Then you can rely on it, not what family are telling you. Again, if the appearance wsa in Perth feel free to PM me and I will help you through getting this.

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    I think people need to stop judging OP. Unless you've been in the exact circumstances who is anyone to say what they would or wouldn't do in her situation?

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    OP I glad that you are feeling better so when your DD comes home you can be at your best
    4 months is a short time to know a person. I am sorry that all these other people are giving you such a hard time about not going to court! I was wondering why you wouldn't go, however you have said why you didn't go. I don't think anyone should be Judging you for why you didn't go... I hope that you get answers soon and that you have the strength to get through this cruddy patch in your life.

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    Wow attack much.

    Its really not going to change my frame of mind, being told i should have gone, dont believe my story etc etc.
    Im not here to be belittled or judged.

    Of course i've had my DD in the last 4 months. Doesnt mean she's been incolved in MY relationship with DP.

    I will get the transcriptions, thank you to whoever suggested that 1st. I'll call the local court 1st thing monday to organise that.

    DP is a grown adult, and his mother does work and is caring for her grandson currently, if she felt she didnt need to go to the court this morning for the extradition hearing, then thats her choice, as is it mine. I dont see it us unproductive, more as self protecting. If court was tomorrow, i'd be there, but this morning i was in no fit state and i need noone to tell me if that was the right or wrong thing to do.

    I understand this is a public forum, and ive opened myself up for attack, but i thought public also ment understanding of differing situations and feelings. My mistake.

    Thank you to those who are supportive, not judging me or DP and there to genuinly help.

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    Can I just quickly add that the OP has stated she is a member undercover. Posts that suggest this is not a genuine situation will be removed.
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    I'm sorry op that you are in this situation, but I'm standing by my comment re your child. As a parents we have a responsibility to ensure we do not actively put our children in danger. I would be finding out first hand so I could make a decision if I ever wanted to see him again.
    It could be something non violent and not that bad ( on the crime scale ) or he could be scum of the earth ( murder, child predictor, drug lord)
    There maybe a chance he will get bail later into the proceedings. You need to know NOW so you can grieve and come to terms with the situation ( and to talk to the police re protection if he has anger issues and you could be at risk) if you don't continue with the relationship.
    Actually as i write this I realize you should know now anyway incase both you and your child are at risk from his criminal activities. I've seen WAY to much tv but what if his criminal associates aren't happy he's now in jail and come after you?

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    I don't believe anyone said it wasn't a genuine situation. All im reading on the possible judgemental interpreted posts is that the situation doesn't make sense to some people so either we are not being told the full story or OP isn't being told the truth. Either way i can tell you 150% for sure, I would want to know right now what my partner was charged for as it's obviously serious. I wouldn't rest until I knew the truth, but hey, that's just me.


 

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