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    Any updates OP?

    You must be sick with worry. I hope you get more details ASAP so you know what you are dealing with.

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    I hope you decided to go OP.

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    Sending you many virtual hugs op.

    I hope you get the answers you need.

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    Hi guys.

    Ok, so firtly, I absoloutly realise that the charges will be serious. Theres no ignoring that. Thats something i know, no sand in the head syndrome here.

    2, i really do not like the insinuation that I would do anything but keep my child safe. For a start, my child has not been home throughout all of this, and will be returning this weekend (). She has missed all of the action so to speak.

    3. No i didnt go to court. Instead i went to sleep. a long, well overdue sleep.

    When i woke this aftternoon, I had a message on my phone from DP, saying he's sorry, he will try and call again on monday. I know that DP is in the other state now, and obviously had access to his phone, and im kicking myself i was asleep!! But i feel a lot better after a sleep and his message.
    Ive not long woken up so i havent spoken to his mum yet.

    You might wonder why i didnt go to court... i didnt go because i would not have handled it emotionally or physically this morning. This has wrecked me, i had not slept, eaten etc and I was litterally two steps from pure exhaustion. So i didnt go, knowing that I will know exactly whats going on on monday by lunch time (DP's brother will be in court on monday when DPs charges are heard).
    Ive decided that while i can still be there for DP, i really need to put my welfare 1st and look after myself for when my DD comes home (Shes been with her BioF for some xmas holidays).

    Ive seen a lot of speculation on what his charges could be. Yes, it could be murder, it could be child abuse, it could be domestic violence, it could be ANYTHING, so speculation will not help, nor am i going to buy into it and work myself up. Of course on monday, it will shed light on what i will choose to do for my own future. And i'll make that call when im fully informed.

    For now im feeling a lot stronger. I guess like everything, you go through the motions. Shock, anger, sadness, ...

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    Quote Originally Posted by InNeedOfWisdom View Post
    Hi guys.

    Ok, so firtly, I absoloutly realise that the charges will be serious. Theres no ignoring that. Thats something i know, no sand in the head syndrome here.

    2, i really do not like the insinuation that I would do anything but keep my child safe. For a start, my child has not been home throughout all of this, and will be returning this weekend (). She has missed all of the action so to speak.

    3. No i didnt go to court. Instead i went to sleep. a long, well overdue sleep.

    When i woke this aftternoon, I had a message on my phone from DP, saying he's sorry, he will try and call again on monday. I know that DP is in the other state now, and obviously had access to his phone, and im kicking myself i was asleep!! But i feel a lot better after a sleep and his message.
    Ive not long woken up so i havent spoken to his mum yet.

    You might wonder why i didnt go to court... i didnt go because i would not have handled it emotionally or physically this morning. This has wrecked me, i had not slept, eaten etc and I was litterally two steps from pure exhaustion. So i didnt go, knowing that I will know exactly whats going on on monday by lunch time (DP's brother will be in court on monday when DPs charges are heard).
    Ive decided that while i can still be there for DP, i really need to put my welfare 1st and look after myself for when my DD comes home (Shes been with her BioF for some xmas holidays).

    Ive seen a lot of speculation on what his charges could be. Yes, it could be murder, it could be child abuse, it could be domestic violence, it could be ANYTHING, so speculation will not help, nor am i going to buy into it and work myself up. Of course on monday, it will shed light on what i will choose to do for my own future. And i'll make that call when im fully informed.

    For now im feeling a lot stronger. I guess like everything, you go through the motions. Shock, anger, sadness, ...
    Big hugs Op, how terrible for you. Hang in there and remember to keep up your strength by eating and sleeping where you can (easier said than done in times of turmoil).

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    Quote Originally Posted by InNeedOfWisdom View Post
    Hi guys.

    Ok, so firtly, I absoloutly realise that the charges will be serious. Theres no ignoring that. Thats something i know, no sand in the head syndrome here.

    2, i really do not like the insinuation that I would do anything but keep my child safe. For a start, my child has not been home throughout all of this, and will be returning this weekend (). She has missed all of the action so to speak.

    3. No i didnt go to court. Instead i went to sleep. a long, well overdue sleep.

    When i woke this aftternoon, I had a message on my phone from DP, saying he's sorry, he will try and call again on monday. I know that DP is in the other state now, and obviously had access to his phone, and im kicking myself i was asleep!! But i feel a lot better after a sleep and his message.
    Ive not long woken up so i havent spoken to his mum yet.

    You might wonder why i didnt go to court... i didnt go because i would not have handled it emotionally or physically this morning. This has wrecked me, i had not slept, eaten etc and I was litterally two steps from pure exhaustion. So i didnt go, knowing that I will know exactly whats going on on monday by lunch time (DP's brother will be in court on monday when DPs charges are heard).
    Ive decided that while i can still be there for DP, i really need to put my welfare 1st and look after myself for when my DD comes home (Shes been with her BioF for some xmas holidays).

    Ive seen a lot of speculation on what his charges could be. Yes, it could be murder, it could be child abuse, it could be domestic violence, it could be ANYTHING, so speculation will not help, nor am i going to buy into it and work myself up. Of course on monday, it will shed light on what i will choose to do for my own future. And i'll make that call when im fully informed.

    For now im feeling a lot stronger. I guess like everything, you go through the motions. Shock, anger, sadness, ...

    Ive been following quietly here as I didn't want to form an opinion and offend you. I hope you are coping well now and if you need someone to listen that wot judge I'm always a private message away :-) chin up! Stay strong!

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    I'm sorry but this whole story screams suss to me. I wouldn't care if I was dying from exhaustion! I would have dragged my a$$ to court to find out what the man I've fallen for has been charged with. Just doesn't make sense to me to want to sleep instead. Very confused over this story!!

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    Default Partner in Custody.

    If that were me, no way would I be comfortable receiving second hand info from his family. I'd need to know and hear it from the legal avenues because I'd need to know that I/my child is safe.
    Sometimes it's hard to face the unbearable, but the reality is that you are responsible for doing all you can to ensure that you and your child are not involved with someone that could harm you. I'm sorry that you couldn't muster the strength to go today, but firmly believe that would have been your best option.

    I'm sorry if that sounds judgmental or condescending, but it is the way I see it.

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