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    Okay from what I understand you slept with partner 2 the first week in July and you had your first scan in the second or third week in July. Did they do an internal ultrasound? They can't always pick up a sac that early on with an external ultrasound.

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    no, no internal ultrasound . just the regular outside one .

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    and another thing, i read that if you take like a dollar general pregnancy test usually it wouldn't be able to show up for almost 2 weeks ? sometimes more ? if this is true , i took a test about a week after having sex with partner number 2 .

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    Default Whos the father ?! :( help ! please !

    It's the first guys I'm afraid

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    id be more than thankful if it was parker #1 . i made a mistake with partner number 2 , thats why I'm so concerned .

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    It sounds like guy 1 to me too. If you were only 4-5 weeks along at the July ultrasound then that could explain why they didn't see anything. I would absolutely get a dna test to confirm though as it can't be ruled out completely that its number 2s baby and you don't want to rely on a guess for something this important.

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    i would say you need a paternity test done. i assume both guys know about the situation you are in, as it would be unfair to not tell them......I know, i have been in your situation. I was up front about it. one of the "men" did a runner just at the thought of a baby, the other waited to find out. i thought it was the baby of the man who left....she is actually the baby of the one who stayed to find out...luckily as she wouldnt have a dad now if it was the other. it is far from an ideal situation to be in. BUT for your childs sake you need to know for 100% certainty who the dad is. everyone deserves the truth. hope you figure all this out.

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    Default Whos the father ?! :( help ! please !

    From the sounds of it I would say partner number 1. Especially as you had an external ultrasound, they sometimes can't see the sac (and usually not the baby) early on. Apparently further and further into your pregnancy it gets harder and harder to pin point conception. So unfortunately now the only definite way to tell who the father is is by a DNA test. Sorry! I hope it's partner number 1, and it works out how you want.

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    Thank you everyone ! and yes both partners know about the situation . partner number 2 could care less , but partner number one is gonna stay to find out . thanks again !

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    Default Whos the father ?! :( help ! please !

    I'm thinking partner 1, still get a test

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