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    Default Whos the father ?! :( help ! please !

    Please help! I have a problem. Okay so Ive always had regular periods, and when i missed my period at the end of May 2012, I knew something was up. A few days later I had spotting. I was with partner #1 until June 28th 2012, and again i missed my period this month. I slept with partner #2 about the first week of July 2012. I did not go and get a preganancy test and find out for sure if I was pregnant until about 2nd or 3rd week of July, after sleeping with Guy #2 in. When I went for the ultrasound about the 2nd or 3rd week of july, nothing had showed up and I was a little concerned. I know I put it off for long but I only had my 2nd ultra sound until November 14th 2012. The doctor said I was About 24 weeks and 3 days along and I had conceived in mid June which would mean It is partner #1's. When i went for another doctors appt. Dec. 14th, they told me i was measuring 25 weeks exactly and due march 28th now with a conception date of july 3rd which is veryyy close to the date i slept with partner 2 ... PLEASE HELP ! so confused . thank you to any help !

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    Maybe the only way will be dna testing once bub is born.

    Hope everything works out for you :-)

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    hm , guess so ! thank you !

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    Sorry. It just comes across that you weren't using a chart so there's really no way to be able to pin point when conception happened. Maybe someone else might be able to work out more?

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    a chart ?

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    i think she means like a ttc chart to track your cycle & when you had s3x.

    I think the only reliable way you are going to know who the father is, is by having a dna test when bubs is born. Good luck.

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    Default Whos the father ?! :( help ! please !

    The earlier scans are always more accurate. You said you missed a period in may - but didnt sleep with partner 2 until July - i dont see how it can be anyone other than partner 1's bub.

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    Ohh i see . thank you !

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    and yes ive heard about the earlier the more accurate , im hoping thats right ! thank you !

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    Default Whos the father ?! :( help ! please !

    I'm confused do you mind if we get some further details? was your last period in may or did you have others after?
    Is your period normally regular ie every 28 days? If so what part of the month does she normally come?


 

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