I had my fourth two months ago and it all went well. I think I was most nervous about this one, no reason why that was obvious other than just because it was my fourth.
It all went well and I think my recovery was good because by now I definitely know my limits. I can't help with any suggestions other than chat to the staff. I found that distracted me and they went that extra mile for us .
Best of luck .
PS. my-fab4, I'm soooo envious of your 5th! I'd love more but fear my GP and hubby may freak at the thought of a 5th CS. (Let me know if you need a name upgrade too )