So many congratulations Lilnightmare!!! So excited for you!!! And first go, that's awesome news sending you lots of sticky vibes! (Actually, that sounds wrong!! You know what I mean!). Do you know if you want a boy or a girl? SO many things to plan and think about and read xxx
Good luck testing tomorrow MrsLA, everything is crossed for you! Disney, you should do what's right for you and your DH, but I agree that you could just get started ttc anyway - you never know what might happen or how long it might take Plus it's more exciting for us
We talked about it and decided that (actually to start with dh said yeah and what's a restructure got to do with having a baby, they can't punish you for having a baby) we will not prevent but not actively try (it the happy medium for the both of us).
Now because I have no self control I have surrendered my opk's and put a lock on my pink pad app. I have set a reminder for the day before ad is due to let me know To prepare for her onslaught. I dont want to be swayed by the hormonal temptation to pee on my opk's and then lure dh to the bedroom. We will let the gods decide when we will have a baby because I believe everything happens for a reason and the gods know how things should be. (I let the gods decide a lot of things for me.. today i let the gods decide if i should have a caramel slice from the cafe at work..they didn't smile on me so it was just a coffee) If I haven't fallen pregnant by pure chance by August (in theory everything at work should be settled down) then we'll actively start trying again.
I'm happy with our decision and I'm looking forward to what the next few months hold.
I just want to send a big thanks to everyone who expressed their thoughts and support it really helped!
So what's it feel like to be pregnant?!? How did you tell dp?!?
I haven't told him yet. Plan to surprise him tomorrow. As for feeling pregnant, I honestly feel no different. I've had no real symptoms to speak of other than bloating, little tired and feeling hot at times. I think I had my implantation bleed today (tmi) as I went to the toilet, wiped and there was pinkish mucus almost similar to spotting on the paper. Needed to pee again about 30mins later (joys of drinking a 1 liter bottle at lunch) and it was all gone.
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