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    Default Re: How do you get over being cheated on?

    I got cheated on with my first real boy friend whilst I was pregnant (miscarried) and I forgave him but never got over it. So it basically ruined our relationship. I got so paranoid about his phone, email, face book, where he was going etc. Drove me insane. And he just treated me like crap so one day I woke up and said see ya later!

    Even to this day I have trust issues. I've been with my dp for 3 years now and his never done anything for me not to trust him. He treats me right and is a total sweetheart But it's still at the back of my mine. I think it always will be.

    Being cheated on by someone who I was so in love with has scarred me for life. I was so crazy about him, I literally felt my heart break. Even thinking about it now brings back so much hurt and betrayal.

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    Quote Originally Posted by waterlily View Post
    Unfortunately I could have written this. I want counseling, we can't afford it. Sometimes I love DH, sometimes I hate him.

    I KNOW he is truly sorry for what he did but it doesn't mean sh!t on its own.
    Unfortunately I could've written that and your post too

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    Thank you all so much. This is all pretty new to me, a couple of months since I found out, so I think I am still in the early days as far as being able to forgive, and I certainly don't see how I can ever forget. I think actually I have a minor form of post traumatic stress syndrome (if there is such a thing as minor PTSD). God it is hard. But thanks for letting me know I'm not alone

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    I was recommended a book to read called "Not 'just friends' " and found parts of it really helped me. It was helpful to read that the way I was feeling was right and justified and it actually helped to explain how I was feeling to DH.

    Don't expect too much of yourself after only a couple of months as it will all still be really fresh. A lovely hubber helped me through things and I never thought I would get to the over side but I did and you will do too in whichever way you decide.

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    Please, do yourself a favour and stop sleeping with him. You are worth so much more!
    I agree

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    Default How do you get over being cheated on?

    Will never forget it. I Ignore it most of the time but there are times when it all comes back.
    Also not exactly in a relationship with him anymore, long story but were not using the title but pretty much are still together. That makes it easier as if I found him being sneaky again I have no real ties to him and can just leave. So far it's been a year and despite us having a couple months where all the feelings and thoughts kept at me so I stopped being close to him (and got with another guy who was worse than cheating ex, and knocked me up) were still close and it's going okay.
    Oh and his cheating was two years ago and kind of earlier this year (too much to explain for that one as we've been in a weird relationship the last two years)

    No idea if I've made sense but yeah, in my experience you never get over it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alicia92 View Post
    I got cheated on with my first real boy friend whilst I was pregnant (miscarried) and I forgave him but never got over it. So it basically ruined our relationship. I got so paranoid about his phone, email, face book, where he was going etc. Drove me insane. And he just treated me like crap so one day I woke up and said see ya later!

    Even to this day I have trust issues. I've been with my dp for 3 years now and his never done anything for me not to trust him. He treats me right and is a total sweetheart But it's still at the back of my mine. I think it always will be.

    Being cheated on by someone who I was so in love with has scarred me for life. I was so crazy about him, I literally felt my heart break. Even thinking about it now brings back so much hurt and betrayal.

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    I know exactly this
    I can't even trust friends or family I have literally no trust to give anymore.

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    My ex hubby cheated on me and still to this day with new DF when he is at work or online when im at work i get nervous that he seeing someone else. His ex cheated on him so i know he wouldnt do it but its still on the back of my mind from the last one.
    Although this isnt what broke our marriage we did try to make it work. It puts your self esteem through the ringer as you are not good enough. Its a hard thing to put behind you but if your relationship is strong enough you can get through anything

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    Default Re: How do you get over being cheated on?

    Quote Originally Posted by αληθη View Post
    I know exactly this
    I can't even trust friends or family I have literally no trust to give anymore.
    me neither. Doesn't matter how hard I try, there's always a thought of being hurt again!

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