For us it took 3 years apart but we kept talking and worked on every thing we could during that time.
We were in different countries for that time but due to what happened I know he was not with anyone else in that time.
I still get flashes of what happened and we both get reminded by some things.
We just decided we would make it work and we have.
We talk about every thing. If we can't then it's over. We both know that.
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Well I didn't cheat physically but I hate to admit I did emotionally and DH has forgiven me but brings it up on the odd occasion (usually arguments) which really makes me angry.
He always says he is over it but by the fact that he still brings it up 3 years later it obviously still bothers him
I went out and cheated, too.
At the time, I felt a bit better because I knew I had hurt him back ... We were young, what can I say? ... But really, it hurt me knowing I had intentionally hurt him.
It really was stupid really as we had both not only hurt each other but put each other's lives at risk.
These days, I do not tolerate cheating (along with other things I consider deal breakers) AT ALL.
Good luck to you! X
Waterlily excuse me crashing, I javent Been in this position but have had other issues with dh in the past and we saw a counsellor through relationship Australia who charge based on income and ability to pay so perhaps that is something to look into ?
It's a shame there isn't much more services available as it would certainly be cheaper than the cost of family breakup
Yes surely a few free sessions for a couple wanting to work thru cheating would be cheaper than mediation and extended court visits. Even if the relationship still ends, the counselling may mean things are a bit calmer so the couple can bypass the court system.
The govt has never been good at looking at early intervention on any level though
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