Am needing some advice, information and just help in general.
DD1 biological father has just decided after 2 and a half years he now wants to be involved in DD1 life. He is now married and has 2 other kids so he has realised what he has missed out on.
I guess I'm still in shock about it as we don't know each other (was a drunken 1nighter) and even though we have met up a few times now I'm wondering if anyone else has been in the same situation.
Me and his wife get on well, but part of me wonders if she is just being fake.
They aren't pressuring me (yet) but have mentioned a few times about leaving her with them for an hour or two but tbh I don't feel comfortable yet. Iv pretty much been a single mum and I don't leave her with anyone apart from my mum.
How long until I leave her? Will I ever feel comfortable about it? Does it matter if I don't know him to much as long as DD1 is treated right?
They have invited me to stay at there's to meet the people she will and for her to know the house for when she goes alone should I go or is it weird meeting his family? I just want to do what's best for her and I'm worried about losing her or her gettin treated differently to the other kids.
Sorry for all the questions I'm just so confused and scared about having to share her I guess and any help would be appreciated