So my best mate (of 10 yrs) is close to delivering her 2nd child. I was out of the state with my own new baby when her first child was born, and so wasn't part of her process last time around.
This time, I have asked her if she plans to tell me when she goes into labour and keep me informed as best she is able to, because I want to be there for her without being physically there, which she doesn't want or need.
She brushed me off a bit because she's been getting bombarded with demands from a workmate of hers who I have always considered psycho. Ie, she wanted to be IN the room with her or at least get a personal, private text message immediately after the baby was born, before they told anyone else.
So this nutter is interfering with my position as BFF and it ****es me off to the max. Please, share your stories so I know there's other crazies out there lol