I tend to filter with DH too. I tell him when we are getting close, ask his advice to whether opks are getting darker within the same day haha I have a ball on his shoulder when I get AF. But I do tend to internalise the constant chatter in my brain regarding ttc. I don't want to overwhelm him since he is so understanding and supportive.
I'm lucky I have a friend or two that is ttc and I can chat to them, whine how over it I am and we push each other out of the trough when the witch comes.