I definitely use BH as an 'outlet' to vent. DH is away a lot, and I'm sure all my RL friends are sick to death of hearing about TTC, and I don't even get into details with them. Even when friends IRL give feedback/advice I can't help but think 'you have no idea what I'm going though, please shut up'. Lol. So need to be stricter on myself for using BH for that purpose only.