I joined this site about a month ago and have just found a thread that (unfortunately) I can join.
I am 33 and my husband is 35. This month marks our twelfth cycle of ttc our first. I had bloods done a few months ago and all was ok. He keeps saying he should get checked out but so far hasn't done so. I know it is a big deal for men and I am hoping he does it on his own accord but I feel I am going to have to push him. I also lost weight, 13 kilos, but have put 3 back on.
I'm glad I have found somewhere to vent with others who understand but sorry you are all in the same boat with me.