I think it's really inappropriate for people to ask. Would someone say to you 'did you have unprotected sex last night?'? Doubt it!! So why is it appropriate to ask about ttc?
A lot of people know about us TTC. My work friends know as I had time off for appointments (and we're good friends anyway). My mum knows. My ILs know, we told them we have a MC because we were visiting soon after and the last thing I could bear was 'are you having another one?' Type comments. And my close friends know for various reasons. I kinda wish they didnt, because every convo starts with 'how's it all going'.
Just caught up with a friend to hear she is utd! I usually get really upset by another's announcements, but in really really happy for her. Our firsts are close in age, so I'd dearly love even more to be utd this cycle so we can have seconds together too.