I just want to vent my feelings really. DS is 11 weeks and I'm feeling really guilty about today. We went to Xmas lunch with the family and it was just mayhem. There were lots of relatives there who haven't seen him since he was born, so he was getting passed around like a toy. People didn't even ask they just grabbed him and gave him to everyone else, even young kids (I quickly intervened here) I wish I had the balls to just say no. He is going through a growth spurt and its so hot today he's been cluster feeding and irritable. Then at dinner everyone got drunk, talking loudly, kids screaming, it was raining so everyone inside making noise. He looked really freaked out. I just feel guilty that maybe I should've just taken him home or told people to leave him alone. He's my first baby so maybe I'm just being over protective I had a good day though despite that, hopefully he isn't too overwhelmed!