Ive calmed down a little bit.
Not at all a fan of sharing my DD over xmas
I realise hes a dik and theres nothing that will change that, I just need to prepare my girl as much as possible. My neighbour has offered for DD to cuddle her 3 cats as often as DD likes when she gets back And i'll just explain to DD why we cant have the cat but that she'll see it when she visits Dad. We have a gorgeous little dog here that DD adores. DD will be fine, and come the 6th I'll be fine too!!
Its hard sometimes, knowing he is doing things that will hurt DD, but theres nothing I can do to stop that.