I can't pretend not to judge these parents.
I judge any practice that is guaranteed to cause unnecessary, severe, continued, uncomforted distress in a child. That poor child is scared emotionally for life.
My heart goes out to all families who are pushed to this kind of breaking point. 😥
My family found ourselves at breaking point this year, we found ourselves at Masada MBU. I don't know what would have happened if we'd not gone and turned things around.
Sometimes we need to put our marriages first. shock horror right.. totally selfish how dare we want to save our marriages and not have our children totally control our lives. Loving and nurturing your child doesnt mean they are more important than every single relationship in the house. Im sorry but it just doesnt and MOST professionals will tell you the same thing.
Yep - I enjoy having my husband to myself at night. Shock horror!!
ETA - I'm not saying because I'm not scared another child wouldn't be but I do think it's unlikely. I'm just saying you can not possibly say you know that is the case.
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Last edited by butterfly2013; 21-12-2012 at 20:44.
If I didn't co-sleep with my son I'm sure we would have come to this point. But that IS the point. I've done everything to avoid him distress at sleep times and I will continue to do so because I could never imagine doing what these people did...as sorry as I feel for them.
ETA: I am single so do not have a husband to look forward to after DS goes to sleep lol
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