You should totally get pink pad it's really good. It helps keep track of your weight as well if you want to loose any. I use it to track my cycles, I also record the symptoms I have, when we dtd, when I got my positive OPK etc. I find its grea, i also set reminders to take folate. I also showed it to my doc a the pre ttc appointment and she was impressed she said it will make it extremely easy to pin point when we conceive the baby to get a due date.
When people ask when we will have a baby ... I tell people I'm not sure and we'll see what happens. It's a big deal and its not something we will rush into when it happens it happens and it generally keeps them happy.
At my doctors appointment she told me not to waste my money on vitamins she said folate is the only thing you need to take. She said vitamins are a personal thing. The dury is out, some doctors say yes, others say no dont waste your money. If you have an unbalanced diet and don't eat well then vitamins could help, but if you eat well and eat veggies and lean protein you don't need the vitamins. I'm only taking the blackmores i-folate.
The closer I get to actually trying for a baby the more scared I get so I feel your anxiety there! As for nye I don't know either ?!?