Just got my period
i don't understand.... Everything was timed perfectly I even had implantation bleeding on day 10!!
So sorry MCB .
MCB, I don't know if this makes you feel better but seriously, getting pregnant is a freaking miracle. I honestly don't know how people have accidents, because it is FREAKING hard.
I had 60 million sperm squirted right into my uterus while I was ovulating, and still nothing. Like, it is not easy.
Humans are a pretty infertile species, just remember that. It will happen for all of us. It doesn't make it easier of course, but it makes me feel better knowing there's nothing wrong with me, it's just a miracle that it happens at all, given how big a journey that little sperm has to undertake.
I don't know how people have accidents either! I've been wondering that ever since my best friend told me she got pregnant by accident along with three others of my friends! They don't even realise how lucky they are.
i really hope that February is your month Rainbow (also hoping its my month and everyone else on here) guess all I can do is keep trying and hopefully have a November baby.
Seems as though its easier to have a miracle happen if you either a. Don't want it to or b. aren't trying to make it happen. Blah
Be kind to urself MCB xxx
Last edited by ChannyV; 23-01-2013 at 09:06.
Big hugs to all, we will get there!
Cd15 here 6 more days till O....have I mentioned how much I hate long cycles grrr
I akin it to winning lotto. Some ppl get a ticket every week for years and never get a win.. some ppl buy one ticket once and BAM they win a million.
You cant predict when or why it will happen and it seems it really doesnt matter if you are doing all the 'things' you should be doing.. there is just some higher being that decides when and if your path in life will include a baby.
I was young when i had DS and had zero purpose to my days then along came a baby and voila.. i have a career focus, a reason for doing what i do and a little guy that made me see how important family and being a functioning responsible adult is. I used to have my phone bill cut off all the time cause i was a late payer and would be out partying instead of saving money.. now i own a house, have zero debt other than the mortgage and have savings... SAVINGS! Weird huh.?!
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