Bubbles, I'm sorry you had a horrible experience with the FS How are you feeling today? I hope that you had a good night sleep and are feeling much better?
MWL, I feel your pain totally about s3x and having to initiate it yourself. If I'm lucky we dtd once a week, sometimes only once a fortnight, depending on work and other commitments (CFA, netball, zumba, as they are all night activities) although I make sure its more when I am fertile.
Best of luck with your Tony Ferguson Program. I admire anyone who can commit to any sort of diet or fitness regime.
Channy, how easy is it to put on weight after you are married? We were also married in march (10th) and since then, all healthy eating has gone out the window! are you doing anything exciting for your anniversary?
We have had our eye on this really great b&b/retreat for years that we want to go to but its nearly $440 a night and we could never justify it. But we think we might do a weekend there for our 1st anniversary. If a 1st wedding anniversary is not reason enough, there will never be a good excuse. I think too that it (hopefully) will be out last good chance before we have a bub. There are so many other things that money could go to, (re polishing floorboards, new carpet, DH car tires etc) but how often do you spoil yourself, really???? Any thoughts/opinions about spoiling ourselves and blowing all those $$$???
shelby, hopefully you do not make it to the specialist. Good luck this month
Rainbow, Your ring is AMAZING!!!!! love it, you are one lucky lady
mumsical, my DH is exactly the same in regards to s3x. one day (hopefully very soon) we will be pregnant and not have to ask again! (well at least until I want bub #2 hahahaha)
afm over the past 2 days have been a little teary and emotional (very much unlike me), extremly desperate to be pregnant (even more than normal), very clucky and finding DH awesomely attractive lol.
I thought I may be O'ing early, so did a opk and VERY neg. So don't know whats wrong with me!!!
Rainbow - that ring is beautiful!
MrsLA - Do it. Live it up on your anniversary. You only live once and floorboards can wait!! Enjoy your high sex drive, it makes TTC less like a chore and more fun!
So what does a teary and emotional lady do on a Friday night?
Sit on the couch with a bottle of wine, watch the notebook and have a good cry!!!!
Oh i hope I am that in love with dh when we are old and grey
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Yup I want a VBAC too. Laboured 13 hours and got to 9 1/2 (YES 9 1/2cm!!!) resulting in a c-section. Ripped off. OB said when it happened Id be a good candidate for a VBAC next time. Fx there is a next time...
Just went to Mums and she asked about how all the FS stuff is going (I REPEATEDLY have asked her NOT to ask as I feel that people knowing what we are doing / where we are up to puts added pressure on me). She said that hopefully I will get permanency with my work soon. Told her I dont want it, I like the flexibility of being contract and besides, I will be out of the workforce later this year to spend more time with DD as I dont know if she will be my only one so I dont want to miss out before she goes to school as I have always worked or studied. Mums response - "Dont be silly you will have another one"- totally dismissing me... (great, when did you become psychic??). She then told me how she understands because she was so "stressed" she that I would be an only child when ttc my sister... (umm.... with our age gap she would have had to have been utd well before my 2nd birthday... so I dont think its comparable as DD is already 3). Told her Im in different circumstances, Im 5 years older than she was, been ttc a long longer and have known fertility issues (so does DH but none of her business) and not to compare me anymore. Breathe........
Waiting I understand. Even though I've not birthed yet, I desperately want a vaginal birth. I would be devastated if I ended up having a C-sec and would want a VBAC if I had a second!
Thanks everyone. I am very lucky, dp is amazing. I hope we can be lucky enough to be blessed with a sticky bubba soon.
Waiting- I know EXACTLY how you feel! I hadn't told my Mom we were TTC until month 3 when I broke down and called her crying. I told her not to ask about it. But of course she does. And every month when I say, not this time Mom, she responds with, "I just don't know how that's possible. No one in our family has ever had any trouble getting pregnant." Thanks. Just what I needed to hear! 😡
I am holding onto to only a string of hope for this cycle...
I had a bit of brown spotting today. Not much, not even on my undies, just when I wiped. My period is due tomorrow. I've never gotten any form of bleeding before my BT while on crinone (which is the only reason I haven't entirely written it off yet) so all I can hope is that it's implantation bleeding (old blood, so maybe from a few days ago) or a breakthrough bleed.
But I'm not really holding out much hope. I hope it tapers off though
Iv got my fingers crossed for u rainbow. Xx
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