Thanks girls. I'm just going to have an early night and see how I feel tomorrow. Ill post tomorrow
Hugs for bubbles and channy xx
I just realised my BT is on Monday not Tuesday
Everything is crossed for you rainbow!!
Bubbles - what a ****ty experience . So sorry. What is your plan from here? After I had my DS I did Michelle Bridges 12wbt and went from 86kgs to 69kgs in just 12 weeks. 17kgs gone! I have put some on again now so thinking of doing it again to get healthier - would love a buddy xx
Channy - I feel so sad for you, losing a baby is gut wrenching I am 100% certain that a sticky bub is in your future but I know how uncertain you must feel now about any future BFP's. Cant wait to share they day when you DO make it to that 12 week scan xx
Thanks everyone. I havent cheered up at all but trying to focus on other things. Hard thou when your boobs hurt like hell. I did a frer on wed and it was neg. Did internet cheapy yesterday and today still bfn. AF is now 1 day late. My body just loves messing with my head! Just want AF to arrive now so boobs stop hurting, bloating goes away, my mood will hopefully lift and we can ttc again. Good luck to everyone else waiting for bfps x
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Do you know what my DH finds the hardest with all this, it's the constant generalisation that 'ALL men want s3x 24/7'. He thinks because he has a lower sex drive than what every other man does (His words) it means he's not man enough. I tell him it's more common than he thinks for a woman to have a higher s3x drive than the man in a relationship and not all men are the same but he thinks I'm only saying that to make him feel better about himself.
Butterfly.. Not sure how you could tactfully share this info with your DH but trust me he isn't the only one with a low libido.
My DH will approach me for it maybe once a week if I am lucky.. All other times it's me nudging him and trying to initiate.. We are 2 times a week ppl. MAX! If that! Sometimes I just have to literally jump on him and take his clothes off so he doesn't have time to complain about being tired before he starts to enjoy it. Lol. I ask afterwards if he gets annoyed cause I am forceful but he loves it.. Just doesn't think to initiate anything himself.
On the plus side I start my tony ferguson programme today! FAT BE GONE! It might have taken me 6yrs.. But I am going to get back to my pre-baby weight! I'm not really TTC this month so focusing on other things.
My early mc has turned me off everything. I dont want to go thought that again right now. I don't have the strength. Feels weird not TTC after solely focusing on it for months but i just can't get into the charting again. So hopefully I get my motivation back soon.
I feel the same MWL, can't b bothered charting but focusing on getting fit and healthy, I need to lose about 7kgs by march 17th which is out first wedding anniversary and will put me back to what I was when we got married (put on weight after wedding and have been very slack losing it)
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