Does anyone know of a help line I can call about children's behaviour? The girls are just completely out of control and it's taking a toll on me mentally and on mine and DF's relationship. It started before DD3 was born but has gotten worse. The back chatting and destroying things around the house are the two major issues, they don't listen to us at all.
If we send them to bed they will literally poo and wee all over the floor and rub it into the carpet and walls despite being fully TT.
Yesterday alone they somehow got out of their room whilst having a nap and I'd fallen asleep with a bowl of porridge, they rubbed it all through their room. I lost it and sent them to Mum's for the day. Picked them up and they refused dinner and then got toilet paper and paper towel and shredded them through their room. This morning I get up and they've gotten out of their room, climbed the shelves and somehow opened a bottle of Infants Friend and poured it all over themselves and the bed. So not only is it naughty, it's dangerous. We keep locks on most things around the house but sometimes forget to re-lock them before going to bed.
They're getting plenty of attention and we try to take them out and about but usually ends in disaster.
We've tried 123 Magic and time outs, separation, taking possessions, rewards for good behaviour and last resorts yelling and smacks. Nothing works and I'm in tears over it.