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    Default Re: relationship issues - 30 weeks preg

    Many TV shows could pass as PN tbh Game of Thrones, Spartica, ROME etc. Among a million movies etc. I still get drawn into some of them despite honestly thinking 'Oh for gods sake..' at the numerous sex scenes involved. I know off topic I was just thinking its really not essential to watch porn in order to watch sex anymore..

    Not really taking any sides with this btw just a thought to ponder.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FirstTimeMummy2012 View Post
    An online friend he hadn't met? Uhm that's still someone he's talking to so not ok. He doesn't talk to the women in the p o r n videos. Oh and my DH doesn't pay for p o r n. Puh-lease! he's an accountant so he'd give up watching p o r n in a heartbeat if he had to pay for it!
    Very blurry lines, like I said. What if the website (paid or free, whatever) had a chat function? The bottom line is a man is jerking off to images of another woman. If his partner believes it is cheating then in their relationship *it is*.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jez View Post
    I hate that these threads always turn into a 'the p o r n industry is horrific' type threads as soon as someone says 'p o r n'.
    Likewise how they turn into 'you're in denial', 'you're a prude', 'all men watch p*rn' These debates are never one sided, there are cheap shots all around lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Eko View Post
    Perhaps it's not the men that are evolved. Perhaps it's us women who are comfortable with our relationships and ourselves enough to accept that our men like to watch pron without it having a negative impact on our egos?

    Ok, I'm going to stop pot-stirring now...
    See that is spot on Eko. Sooo glad you said it! I defintely think ... no actually I believe without a shadow of a doubt that the female self esteem plays a big part in why they don't want their partners watching porn.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kiplusthree View Post
    Many TV shows could pass as PN tbh Game of Thrones, Spartica, ROME etc. Among a million movies etc. I still get drawn into some of them despite honestly thinking 'Oh for gods sake..' at the numerous sex scenes involved. I know off topic I was just thinking its really not essential to watch porn in order to watch sex anymore..

    Not really taking any sides with this btw just a thought to ponder.

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    Spartacus was sooo soft p. o.r.n!! Game of Thrones not so much - that one scene in season 1 aside.

    And let's not forget the first few seasons of True Blood!

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    Quote Originally Posted by delirium View Post
    Likewise how they turn into 'you're in denial', 'you're a prude', 'all men watch p*rn' These debates are never one sided, there are cheap shots all around lol
    So true. The sexism/stereotypes against men in these threads never cease to astound me.

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    Another here with a DP who does NOT watch porn.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alicia92 View Post
    If you don't allow your husband's to watch porn, he'll only do it behind your back anyway! I'd rather my partner be honest with me :-)

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    Well thank god I married my husband, who proves you wrong Can you not just accept some men like it, others don't and some women are ok with it and others aren't?

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    Quote Originally Posted by FirstTimeMummy2012 View Post
    See that is spot on Eko. Sooo glad you said it! I defintely think ... no actually I believe without a shadow of a doubt that the female self esteem plays a big part in why they don't want their partners watching porn.
    So you think the solution to a woman who, by your definition, has low self esteem is to ridicule her and tell her that her feelings are wrong? That a partner should just continue to watch hardcore pronography knowing it hurts his partner?

    TBH it sounds like he has a bit of a problem if it's daily, and it's affecting their s3x life.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FirstTimeMummy2012 View Post
    Or maybe you're just naive .. just saying.

    My DH is VERY evolved thank you very much!
    I wasn't suggesting he wasn't.

    But a man who thinks his right to get his rocks off is more important that the right of his partner to feel safe and secure and respected in a relationship is practically a Neanderthal IMO. I feel desperately sorry for anyone who knows a man like that, let alone be in a relationship with one.


 
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