What I don't get is why there are so many people out there who CARE whether or not someone else is being lied to by their partner.
My DH watches pron. Big whatever. I've been known to as well! I don't care who thinks it's disgusting or degrading or whatever else because hey, top tip...
It ain't anyone else's problem .
So if someone wants to believe their partner is being honest with them, good on them. If someone knows for a fact that their partner doesn't watch it, good on them. If someone is uncomfortable with the very idea that pron even exists, good on them. That's their issue to deal with, not mine .
As for the OP, I think if you are really uncomfortable with it you should talk to him about it. Let him know how you feel about the whole thing and ask if there is a compromise that you are both comfortable with.
Perhaps he'd be ok with restricting his viewing to vanilla type pron where it's not as confronting as some of the other things he's been watching? Or something... I don't know. Not having a problem with it means I've never had to think up compromises lol.
Wouldn't make for a very stable relationship if you didn't respect each other enough to value their opinions and be open with each other.
Ok, I'm going to stop pot-stirring now...
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