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    Quote Originally Posted by NancyBlackett View Post
    I guess some men are just more evolved than others.
    Or maybe you're just naive .. just saying.

    My DH is VERY evolved thank you very much!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alicia92 View Post
    If you don't allow your husband's to watch porn, he'll only do it behind your back anyway! I'd rather my partner be honest with me :-)

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    You don't think it's possible for a man to respect his partners feelings and not watch pron?
    I understand a man has needs, but he can masturbate without pron.

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    What I don't get is why there are so many people out there who CARE whether or not someone else is being lied to by their partner.
    My DH watches pron. Big whatever. I've been known to as well! I don't care who thinks it's disgusting or degrading or whatever else because hey, top tip...

    It ain't anyone else's problem .

    So if someone wants to believe their partner is being honest with them, good on them. If someone knows for a fact that their partner doesn't watch it, good on them. If someone is uncomfortable with the very idea that pron even exists, good on them. That's their issue to deal with, not mine .

    As for the OP, I think if you are really uncomfortable with it you should talk to him about it. Let him know how you feel about the whole thing and ask if there is a compromise that you are both comfortable with.
    Perhaps he'd be ok with restricting his viewing to vanilla type pron where it's not as confronting as some of the other things he's been watching? Or something... I don't know. Not having a problem with it means I've never had to think up compromises lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alicia92 View Post
    If you don't allow your husband's to watch porn, he'll only do it behind your back anyway! I'd rather my partner be honest with me :-)

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    Going to disagree with you there. My husband and I respect each others opinions and if something upset me and I asked him not to do it/watch it he wouldn't ... he wouldn't go behind my back. Same if the roles were reversed.

    Wouldn't make for a very stable relationship if you didn't respect each other enough to value their opinions and be open with each other.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alicia92 View Post
    If you don't allow your husband's to watch porn, he'll only do it behind your back anyway! I'd rather my partner be honest with me :-)

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    Wow. Not all men are these p-orn fuelled beasts with no self control. Nor do all men sneak around behind their partners backs for a cheap thrill. Some men are actually content with real life relations and *gasp* honesty and transparency in their relationships!

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    Quote Originally Posted by peanutmonkey View Post
    So because I believe my husband, I am unrealistic? LOL.

    Oh goodness me, there is no point to continuing this.

    And FTM I get what you are trying to say but to me saying you would rather not learn about the pron industry and what its like and the major issues with it, so that you can keep watching it without it being 'ruined' is like saying it's ok to eat meat that is killed inhumanely - cos if you dont see it, it doesnt exist and its ok? Honestly asking here, cos thats just the way I see it.
    Never said it was ok. Why does everyone think it's ok to put words in others mouths? At no point did I say the industry was ok. I just said I have no interest in getting into the details.

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    Default relationship issues - 30 weeks preg

    Quote Originally Posted by Alicia92 View Post
    If you don't allow your husband's to watch porn, he'll only do it behind your back anyway! I'd rather my partner be honest with me :-)

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    Wtf??

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    Quote Originally Posted by FirstTimeMummy2012 View Post
    Or maybe you're just naive .. just saying.

    My DH is VERY evolved thank you very much!
    Perhaps it's not the men that are evolved. Perhaps it's us women who are comfortable with our relationships and ourselves enough to accept that our men like to watch pron without it having a negative impact on our egos?

    Ok, I'm going to stop pot-stirring now...

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    Default relationship issues - 30 weeks preg

    Quote Originally Posted by Alicia92 View Post
    If you don't allow your husband's to watch porn, he'll only do it behind your back anyway! I'd rather my partner be honest with me :-)

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    I feel sorry for you if that's your opinion of men as that's obviously the only type of man in your life.

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    Default relationship issues - 30 weeks preg

    Quote Originally Posted by Eko View Post
    Perhaps it's not the men that are evolved. Perhaps it's us women who are comfortable with our relationships and ourselves enough to accept that our men like to watch pron without it having a negative impact on our egos?

    Ok, I'm going to stop pot-stirring now...
    Ohhhhh are you sure? We could have such fun! I think I've got another 15 minutes before my kids wake up?


 
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