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    Default Re: relationship issues - 30 weeks preg

    Whether you're okay with it or not and he watches it or not etc is up to you both to work out in your personal relationship.

    The part I'd find worrying is the lying/hiding it from you. That would be cause for some marriage psych to me might help you work out what to do about the conflict too (partner likes p o r n/you dnt like him watching p o r n- How to work it out so you can both be happy)

    Regardless of what they do or don't/what you do or don't.. The important thing in a relationship is communication, feeling you can talk about things, feeling respected/respectful and trust!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alicia92 View Post
    Thank you!!
    Finally someone else who is actually REALISTIC!!

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    I think you're being unrealistic if you think EVERY man watches p o r n.

    My husband does not. How do I know? Because he doesn't need to, and if he did he would tell me as we are open and honest in our relationship. How do I know 100%? Because we use each others phones every day, our laptop is shared and everything is transparent between us.

    FWIW, my DH hates 'fake' so p.rn doesn't even get him remotely excited. He doesn't even like me in se.xy underwear as it looks like I am trying to hard and fake. Not all men find p.orn arousing.
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    Quote Originally Posted by faroutbrusselsprout View Post
    My reality involves me believing my husband...??
    Pretty realistic in my books.
    Lying is a deal breaker in our relationship. He'd have to be an idiot to lie about watching p0rn to get a cheap w@nk.
    Same here. I think it's really sad that some people have relationships with men who they believe lie to them.

    I don't actually have an issue with p o r n but I know he doesn't watch it as he tells me he doesn't. Plus - he wouldn't ever have the time lol!
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    Default Re: relationship issues - 30 weeks preg

    If you don't allow your husband's to watch porn, he'll only do it behind your back anyway! I'd rather my partner be honest with me :-)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alicia92 View Post
    If you don't allow your husband's to watch porn, he'll only do it behind your back anyway! I'd rather my partner be honest with me :-)

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    There is no words.
    LOL.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alicia92 View Post
    If you don't allow your husband's to watch porn, he'll only do it behind your back anyway! I'd rather my partner be honest with me :-)

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    You're wrong. Maybe someone has fooled you into thinking all men watch it.
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    I have something totally totally disgusting to say, and I can't even remember what the conversation that led to this was about but *gulp* my dad once told me that he hates pronography. I do know that he laughs out very loudly at the car races that he loves and constantly criticises the s3xism. He had a young woman on Facebook 'invite' him to look at her 'n&de photos' and he replied with "I'm very flattered but you are younger than my daughter. Please leave me alone" My dad doesn't lie, he is not a liar. It's just not him. He doesn't owe me any explanations about this, and nor do I want to know really but I am glad to know that I KNOW FOR A FACT that there is at least one man who doesn't watch pr0n!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alicia92 View Post
    If you don't allow your husband's to watch porn, he'll only do it behind your back anyway! I'd rather my partner be honest with me :-)

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    And THIS is why people have a problem with your posts in this thread.

    Not all men lie and watch pron. think people stupid all you like, but its a gross generalisation that isnt at all true.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alicia92 View Post
    If you don't allow your husband's to watch porn, he'll only do it behind your back anyway! I'd rather my partner be honest with me :-)
    How do you know that yours isn't lying and having an affair on the side may I ask? Men always have affairs Men always lie about it Apparently they are prone to lying anyway yours could be off doing goodness knows what!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Benji View Post
    I have something totally totally disgusting to say, and I can't even remember what the conversation that led to this was about but *gulp* my dad once told me that he hates pronography. I do know that he laughs out very loudly at the car races that he loves and constantly criticises the s3xism. He had a young woman on Facebook 'invite' him to look at her 'n&de photos' and he replied with "I'm very flattered but you are younger than my daughter. Please leave me alone" My dad doesn't lie, he is not a liar. It's just not him. He doesn't owe me any explanations about this, and nor do I want to know really but I am glad to know that I KNOW FOR A FACT that there is at least one man who doesn't watch pr0n!!!!
    Your dad is fabulous.

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