We will definitely be changing our surnames, most likely to my mothers maiden name. My mum raised me yet I have my dads name, doesn't seem right. My partner has no connection to her name. currently has her brothers - fathers name. How weird is that, her brothers are older than her and from a previous marriage, she has also had her sisters - fathers name. Poor kid had no connection so she is looking forward to having our own little family with all the same names.