I had lavender and silver/white theme. I wore white, bridesmaids wore lavender, groomsmen and groom wore black suits with silver vests and ties, they wore lavender roses and my dh a white rose. We had white rolls Royce cars, my bouquet was a combo of white, lavender and pink roses and the bridesmaids had white and lavender roses. The cake was white with white roses on top and a homer and marge figure dressed the same as us. Chairs at reception had white covers with lavender sach. Loved it all!