Nila....your Mum sounds like mine! My Mum is a perfectionist, and expects everyone to be the same...and constantly makes critical comments. It's taken me many years, but I've learnt to brush it off. She does it to my sister and brothers too. Is your MIL supportive?
My NY resolution is to get my tax and other paperwork sorted (my study is a disaster zone), and to sort through all of Oscar's old baby stuff and work out what we may need. We've got a bedroom which was ear-marked for baby number 2, but after 2 miscarriages it got to the point I couldn't go in there. So it's packed full of things I need to sort...cradle, breastfeeding chair, bouncer, clothes, play mat...not even sure what else.
Want to get as much done before last 10 weeks when one feels like a beached whale!! And a constantly sleepy one at that!