oh my god you guys are awesome.
We live with my partners mum, so our rent isn't too high, though we definitely pay our way it is not a free ride.
I intend to BF and use cloth nappies. A bigger time consumption but it's what I had and I will do the same. This has definitely made me feel more confident and gives me hope. My partner and I really want kids but the only thing that was stopping it was perhaps we couldn't make do. It makes me happy to know that you can manage, for this ladies, i thank you