I don't understand why he's doing her any favours, she's not his friend and she's not your friend so why is he helping her out ?
It could be that he's just a nice bloke that goes out of his way for people but I'd think the last thing he'd want to do after a long day at work fixing cars is to go to a strangers house and fix one for free.
If I were you I'd be telling him under no circumstances do you want him going to her house to work on the car. If it's stuffed she can have it towed to his workshop or your house.
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The fact that he felt he needed to hide it from you worries me a bit. I would certainly be prepared for a long, honest conversation tonight.
Oh dear.. Maybe you should tell her exactly what you think! Both of them would be in for it in my books!
Hugs hun x
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You need to set very concrete barriers that he is not to do anything for her outside work. That this time you come first. If her car needs work than it will done on the books at work and work out a payment plan rather than a backyardie.
I think what makes me angry most is I am pregnant, i couldn't be in a more vunerable position. I feel so unnattractive as it is and now he is going behind my back helping her out, I will never understand. She is alot skinnier than i am (obviously at the moment haha) but she has the personality of a rock seriously. She does nothing but complain about her boyfriends when she is with them and then cheats on them when something better comes along. She loves the attention. She is not very attractive either if she was really good looking i could understand (not saying i am a stunner but i think i am prettier than he). I asked him if he was bored of me (we have both only ever been with eachother IYKWIM). He says no he loves me but why won't he have sex with me? I don't get it, I am actually a very open person when it comes to intimacy so it's not like he is going without so I will never understand. Unless he simply is bored. I know some of you are saying talk to him before you jump to conclusions but i know my husband and he would be loving the attention. I have had to step in twice before when "friends" have overstepped the mark with him, they are no longer my friend either. The thing is those times he thought they were just being nice he doesn't notice the flirtation until i point it out. I am hoping that this is the case but i doubt it, if he knows what she said he would be aware that this would be an innapropriate positon for him to put himself in. I honestly think he likes it.
It sounds like he is doing the wrong thing not her. Ask him why he didn't tell you he went there.
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