I'm feeling really angry and upset about this so before I confront my DH about this i wanted to know what you thought?
Today i got a message from an old work colleague of mine who i used to be very good friends with but before my hubby and I got married she said something really peculiar to me that I would never say to a firend so the relationship just dwindled out. She said to me that she would **** him (meaning my husband), to this day i don't know why she said it because she didn't even know him at this stage. Anyway 6 years later she has been in and out of relationships whilst i got married and had a baby, i am currently pregnant with our second which makes this even harder for me because I don't exactly feel sexy at the moment. Ok so she is recently single and messages me today asking wether my DH likes scotch or beer because he came round to her house on Wed night to look at her car. My husband is a mechanic and he has a workplace for a reason take your bloody car there instead of getting house calls. I replied to her but now i am really upset, she has cheated on boyfriends in the past which makes me think she wouldn't think anything of it flirting or going further with my husband.
I should also say that on Wed night my husband told me he was going to the doctor because he wasn't feeling well, he rang me at 7.40 saying that it is still a 50 min wait at the doctor could I make an appt at the dr closer to our house which i did. i am not disputing the fact he wen't to the doctor but by saying still a 50 min wait it implied to me he was already waiting there. When he came home I gave him a cuddle asked how his day was blah blah and I remembedr saying to him how nice he smelt. He said he had put on deoderant because he was stinky from work which now makes me think. This might be TMI but i tried to have sex with him that night but he said he was too tired, lately he has been using this excuse constantly. i have spoken to him about it because I thought it might have something to do with me being pregnant and big bell etc., but now I am wondering wether he just doesn't find me attractive anymore. I am not jumping to the conclusion that he cheated but why would he hide the fact he had gone to her house to look at her car? I just don't get it.