I have started to comment of late as he has gained about 15 kgs over the last few months, he is constantly complaining about back ache and being too fat. Most of his weight seems to be in his mid section which explains the back ache. He also smokes cigarettes so I've been on his case alot about being healthier lately. Nothing scares me more then the thought of my kids not having their dad around especially when I have another one on the way!!!