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    I was a teen in the 90's too and I used condoms all the time, plus the pill. Like Mintie, AIDS was still in the media a lot back then and it scared me more than pg.

    As to why teens have sex outside of marriage? I won't say I've had a heap of partners, I got with my DH at 17. But I've had a quite a few, and I don't regret it a single bit. I had already done the rounds (that sounds bad lol) I had my fun, and when I got with my DH and fell deeply in love, it was for life. I'm now almost 34 and wouldn't change a single thing about my life before him.

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    Default When you had teenage sex did you use protection?

    Nothing the first 2 times I had sex, I was 16. the first 2 times just sort of happened and I was too scared to ask them to put one on! God I am SO thankful I didn't get pregnant or catch a STI

    Then with my long term BF we used the pill and sometimes condoms but I forgot to take my pill heaps.

    With DH (I was older and MUCH more mature) I refused to take the pill so we always used condoms until we decided to TTC.

    The first 2 times I was too shy and scared to say anything which I'm so ashamed about but extremely thankful nothing bad happened to me!
    I hope with all my heart DD is never as stupid as I was. I never want sex to be a taboo issue in our house, I hope she will feel open enough to talk with me.

    DH was very smart though, he used a condom every time until we for together and started to TTC.
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    Default When you had teenage sex did you use protection?

    Quote Originally Posted by Pawzette View Post
    Why's that I have been married for 10 years and still happy!! Not all marriages that young fall apart. I married with the intent for life!

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    Nothing to do with whether it falls apart or not! My personal hope for my daughter is that she has significant life experience and enjoys adulthood as an individual before she makes such a commitment. :-)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chew the Mintie View Post
    I always did as I was a child of the 90s and we were all scared of aids
    I'm a 1990 baby and I never knew of aids? Lol until last couple years.

    Anyway! With my first yes, second no an d third nope I have made one guy get a std check because of the girls he slept with. I was in a 5 year relo so I knew I was clean (unless he cheated which he probably did) i got checked anyway.

    I wouldn't care if my child had sex at 16 and a baby then. Of course I would want her to wait but I wouldn't be ashamed like my mother was of me. The greatest mothers I know are the young mums who have struggled doing it tough to get to the other side

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    Quote Originally Posted by shelle65 View Post
    Nothing to do with whether it falls apart or not! My personal hope for my daughter is that she has significant life experience and enjoys adulthood as an individual before she makes such a commitment. :-)
    Definetky agree with this. I was with someone for 5 years from 15 and he was a tosser... So glad I left him! You don't know what your missing out on til you get treated better!

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    We would put a condom on halfway through. My BF insisted it was only needed for the end.

    He also pressured me to go on the pill so he didn't have to use condoms at all, which I eventually did for a year but I couldn't handle it emotionally so stopped at switched back to condoms.

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    I was a teenager in the 90s when there was a lot of public awareness of STDs (especcially AIDS) and I was petrified about them and would've much rather used condoms for the whole encounter, but I wasn't very good at standing up for myself.

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    Monnie, I was born in 1975. When I say child of the 90s I meant teen of the 90s - sorry that was confusing.

    It really freaks me out though that you didn't know about aids!!!

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    No I didn't. I had s*x for the first time with my high school boyfriend when we were both 16. We were eachother's first. I was already on the pill for horrible periods and skin acne so other than that, no other protection was used. We were together for 5 years so I didn't sleep with anyone different until I was 22. I used condoms from then on.

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    Default Re: When you had teenage sex did you use protection?

    Yup, sure did. First time I had sex without a condom was when DH and I decided to start trying for our first baby.

    My mum was the result of a teen pregnancy, my mother fell pregnant with my older brother at 16 and my brother got his girlfriend pregnant at 17 (he refused to wear condoms). So teen pregnancy is everywhere in my family so I was terrified of falling pregnant before I was ready...

    Imagine the irony I felt when DH and I went on to have very lengthy periods of TTC with a m/c and no success for quite awhile!

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    Default When you had teenage sex did you use protection?

    I did condoms and the pill. I was petrified of pregnancy!


 

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